Miss independent

You can do all you can do, but sometimes the fight is just effortless, you care with all your heart, just to get it broken day after day. All she ever dreamed about was having them all together again but when it finally happens, shes the one left out in the cold, and they just act like everything's completely normal. The one who tried the hardest to get everything back, is the one who was left behind. but its okay, she'll be fine, she'll get threw this just like everything else. She knows that she did nothing wrong, and all they have to do is realize how selfish and fucked up they are. In the end all of this is just making her stronger, and making her realize she doesn't need anyone. She'll make it all on her own.  5 Reasons Why Being Independent & Self-Reliant Is Good Independence has many good qualities: 1. You can take control of your own destiny. I love sitting on the train by myself with my coffee and reading because it gives me individual time to veg out and make decisions by myself. Usually, when I’m on a train with friends, I always have to relinquish control to someone else because they’re natural-born leaders or can’t stand not having people follow them around. When I’m just by myself and can make my own rules, it’s both an introspective and empowering moment because I am the sole controller of what happens. This might sound slightly anti-social, but isn’t it good to feel like your own leader once in a while? You’re independent – you can do it! 2. It’s good to be confident on your two feet. This is especially true in a big city where you have to keep your wits about you. You shouldn’t be too distracted while roaming around, but you should also just enjoy the freedom and refresh yourself on YOU. If you can take public transport, drive for errands, or get coffee by yourself, it can be empowering and interesting. This can also be metaphorical – are you comfortable with yourself and making decisions for just you? It’s good to have a decisive side and be able to take control of yourself without others influencing you. 3. Gain perspective on your life. Sometimes you don’t notice certain things when you’re with a big group, but once in a while, go through your life like a movie: sit on a bench in a park and listen to the music in your head. Relax and take everything in. Be comfortable with the silence. It’s good to just be by yourself sometimes and just think. 4. The obvious: not be dependent on anyone but yourself. While it makes sense when you’re a child to rely on your parents for important decisions, once you become an adult, you should be able to be comfortable doing things by yourself. Be like Beyonce – go solo from Destiny’s Child! You don’t have to have family, friends, or significant others taking care of you – if you can get a job, make your own money, and support yourself, you can be self-reliant and fabulous. Don’t let yourself be taken care 0f – take care of yourself! 5. Be yourself. You can be anyone you want to be once you’re self-reliant and can take care of yourself BY yourself. Once you love yourself and prove to people that you’re strong, then you can be a good friend, family member, and/or significant other to someone else. Be independent and you take the world head on!  Just be yourself and everything will fall into place! but sometimes being Independent can lead to being lonely :( I'm so lonely  I cry myself to sleep Like, very single night I feel as if I'm broken, I can't do anything right, It's like I'm old and rusty, Just sitting in the corner ,It's like every dayI'm getting wiser I'm learning to step aside To hide myself in the shadow, Just to pray and hope For a better tomorrow. As the blade meets my wristI think about all the things that I can't do, like; Play the guitar or sing..I'm a living failureThere's nothing I can doI wish I was perfect with a great body too..But although I keep wishing It never works out, I can jump and scream And yell and shout I'm alone in this world ,I have no real friends And I will probably be lonely Until the very end..